First kisses are very important, but not exactly a really big deal. I feel as though everybody is pressured to kiss someone before they are even in high school. iCarly demonstrates this. Freddy gets teased because he didn't have a first kiss yet, so in order to really fix that he turns to a close friend who he knows he can trust it with, and to just get it over with. It's just not fair. You don't know if the person you first kiss is going to be as close as they are when it happens and you shouldn't feel pressured into having it.
I would say just wait until you feel it's right. It doesn't even have to be the perfect moment with the perfect person. Just two people who are with the moment; that is beautiful in its own way.
My first and current boyfriend didn't kiss until 3 months of our relationship. Not because we didn't want to, no, but because we were waiting for a moment that we were both ready for it. Our friends were like, "What are ya doin' waiting?" but we didn't care.
And my advice is BE BOLD! If you are in the moment and nothing is happening, just go for it. I'm not saying it's easy to do, I'm just saying that when you do it, you will feel better.
Best wishes. :]
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